[Paul Uwa]

A true best friend isn’t self-absorbed and stands up for you and also doesn’t just ask for favors and just leaves until another problem comes

[YOURGURL ava]

Thank you for that answer paul

Welcome to my group

[Precious Ugoji]

ok that’s cool. i think i know what to do with my friendship now. and also thanks for the tip

[YOURGURL ava]

What u just said made so much sense

[YOURGURL ava]

Which problem did u have??

by the way welcome to my group

[Precious Ugoji]

my problem is that my best friend is so rude she likes gossiping about people while me i like preaching to people to stop their bad attitudes. she just likes to shout at me when i do not want to do what she wants and when she says i should not do something she does it herself in frontt of me. let me take for example there is this girl that is a bad influence in my class and she said i should not talk to her well i did as she asked becus me too i did not want to talk to her myself but the next thing i knew she was talking to her it got so annoying that i can’t help but put a grudge on her. pauls idea was great but can you pls tell me whether i should still be her best friend or i should make her one of my classmates just like the rest and she is my only one best friend. i need help.

[YOURGURL ava]

Grl,just follow your heart and do the good thing it tells u to do to your best friend…Ok,WHAT DO YOU HAVE IN MIND??

[Precious Ugoji]

i just feel like telling her we are done but i think that is too harsh or telling her what she is doing wrong but she never even allows me to finish my sentence. see that is why i asked for help can you help me choose which one is best

[YOURGURL ava]

Please do not overthink your decisions.Go straight i tell her “Girl we are done..i don’t want to be friends to someone who shut me up for pouring out my mind and i don’t to be friends to someone who hurts my feelings for no good reasoning”Say dear i am just telling you things a bad friend will do and i tell her that i pray God will find someone who will always be there for me as a friend.Goodye and walk without shame.

That is if ur mind is ready for it.Don’t be scared and do what is right.

Which grade are you??

[Precious Ugoji]

i am grade 8

[Precious Ugoji]

but i still do not have the courage cus we have been friends for a ling time now like for 3 years

and now is when she is showing her true colour bit by bit

[abasikponke IME]

a’m sorry to be honest with you,I do have the same friend mine is even worst 😭

[abasikponke IME]

well am a new member

[abasikponke IME]

guys please i do need your help am tired of crying, my best friend just stab me at my back

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