best friend group

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    Posted by Precious Ugoji on September 10, 2022 at 8:34 pm

    wait pls i want to know how you can identify if one is a true best friend becus i have problems with one of my best friends and i just do not know what to do

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    Precious Ugoji replied 1 year, 12 months ago 3 Members · 11 Replies
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    Paul Uwa

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    September 20, 2022 at 6:22 pm

    A true best friend isn’t self-absorbed and stands up for you and also doesn’t just ask for favors and just leaves until another problem comes

    • YOURGURL ava

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      October 14, 2022 at 1:36 pm

      Thank you for that answer paul

      Welcome to my group

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    Precious Ugoji

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    September 20, 2022 at 6:33 pm

    ok that’s cool. i think i know what to do with my friendship now. and also thanks for the tip

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      October 14, 2022 at 1:37 pm

      What u just said made so much sense

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    October 14, 2022 at 1:35 pm

    Which problem did u have??

    by the way welcome to my group

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      Precious Ugoji

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      October 14, 2022 at 6:44 pm

      my problem is that my best friend is so rude she likes gossiping about people while me i like preaching to people to stop their bad attitudes. she just likes to shout at me when i do not want to do what she wants and when she says i should not do something she does it herself in frontt of me. let me take for example there is this girl that is a bad influence in my class and she said i should not talk to her well i did as she asked becus me too i did not want to talk to her myself but the next thing i knew she was talking to her it got so annoying that i can’t help but put a grudge on her. pauls idea was great but can you pls tell me whether i should still be her best friend or i should make her one of my classmates just like the rest and she is my only one best friend. i need help.

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        October 14, 2022 at 9:01 pm

        Grl,just follow your heart and do the good thing it tells u to do to your best friend…Ok,WHAT DO YOU HAVE IN MIND??

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          Precious Ugoji

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          October 14, 2022 at 10:44 pm

          i just feel like telling her we are done but i think that is too harsh or telling her what she is doing wrong but she never even allows me to finish my sentence. see that is why i asked for help can you help me choose which one is best

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            October 16, 2022 at 9:05 pm

            Please do not overthink your decisions.Go straight i tell her “Girl we are done..i don’t want to be friends to someone who shut me up for pouring out my mind and i don’t to be friends to someone who hurts my feelings for no good reasoning”Say dear i am just telling you things a bad friend will do and i tell her that i pray God will find someone who will always be there for me as a friend.Goodye and walk without shame.

            That is if ur mind is ready for it.Don’t be scared and do what is right.

            Which grade are you??

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              Precious Ugoji

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              October 17, 2022 at 7:14 pm

              i am grade 8

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              Precious Ugoji

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              October 17, 2022 at 7:24 pm

              but i still do not have the courage cus we have been friends for a ling time now like for 3 years

              and now is when she is showing her true colour bit by bit

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